by Barry de Silva
From guitar strings to Gospel readings, Deacon Shane Hyland’s journey to ordination has been anything but conventional. A husband, father of three, teacher, and now a Deacon in Port Macquarie, Shane’s story is one of faith rediscovered in the midst of life’s challenges. We spoke with Shane to reflect on how his calling as a Deacon continues to shape his ministry at home, at school, and through the wider Church.
What was your childhood like growing up — has faith always been a strong part of your life?
I was born Catholic and served as an altar server when I was young, but I didn’t truly connect with God until much later in life.
How did you connect with God?
It was 2010, in the midst of the global financial crisis. My wife Leanne and I were running a small business, but things weren’t going well. We had just welcomed our second child, and without close support from family, everything became overwhelming. We hit rock bottom.
We moved back in with our parents to get back on our feet — it was a really tough time. But when we returned, we found the Church to be incredibly welcoming and inclusive, which meant a lot. Everywhere we went, we joined family groups, so in a way, God was always present. Things progressed further when we went to church one day and there was a volunteer drive to get people more involved with different ministries and we ended up being involved in the music ministry.
“Having your family behind you makes all the difference. Their presence is a constant reminder of why I serve.”
Have you always had a passion for music?
I have always played the guitar. Sr Mary taught me the four chords to play On Eagle’s Wings. Music became a natural way for me to contribute to the life of the Church and feel part of the community.
Did you grow up in Port Macquarie?
No, Leanne and I met on the Central Coast, and our first real engagement with parish life was in Warnervale, in the Diocese of Broken Bay. After the traumatic birth of our third child, we found ourselves going to church but not feeling as connected. It was through that experience that God re-entered our lives in a powerful way.
In what way did God appear?
Through prayer. Praying together during that difficult period really drew us closer as a couple. We felt God’s presence in a way we hadn’t before.
Can you describe how it felt to be ordained at St Agnes’ Church, your home Parish?
It was a beautiful celebration. The whole community gathered around me, and I felt incredibly blessed. It was a special time.
Has your life changed since becoming a Deacon?
I think so. The role is quite different from what I was used to. It’s only been a few months, so I’m still settling in. I imagine it’s new for the Parish as well — to have a member of the clergy who’s married and raising a family. The biggest challenge so far has been learning the liturgical aspects of the role and serving at Mass.
How has your family supported you through your vocational journey?
They’ve been amazing, so supportive and encouraging. Having your family behind you makes all the difference. Their presence is a constant reminder of why I serve.
How do your roles as a father and husband complement your role as a Deacon?
My hope is that I’m a good Christian witness for them, and that I can get more involved in helping them become good human beings. The main thing is that they’re good disciples and follow Jesus.
In your position as Leader of Evangelisation at St Joseph’s Regional College, has anything changed since your ordination?
People’s perceptions have shifted. Wearing a Roman collar around the school gets attention, especially from the students, which is exactly why I wear it. It sparks conversations. After Mass or liturgies, some students want to become altar servers or get involved in other ways. I hope that’s because they see me as a positive role model.
How do your two vocations as a Deacon and as a school leader intersect?
At an ordination, a Deacon is handed the Book of the Gospels, symbolising the call to proclaim the Good News. As a Leader of Evangelisation, that’s also my professional mission. So, the two roles align beautifully. Being in a school setting gives me an incredible opportunity to share the Gospel with young people.
Do you have a favourite meal you like to cook with your family?
I’m not a great cook, but I can manage making a spaghetti bolognese. My favourite meal is creamy chicken pasta.
Do you have a book you like to refer to when you need to unwind?
New Seeds of Contemplation by Thomas Merton is my go-to when I need a bit of inspiration.
“Wearing a Roman collar around the school gets attention, especially from the students, which is exactly why I wear it. It sparks conversations.”
Is there a Bible story or passage that speaks powerfully to you?
The washing of the feet from John 13:1–20. That was the Gospel I chose for my ordination. While it’s not always interpreted this way, I believe Jesus instituted the diaconate in that moment. It’s a powerful image of service. Deacons aren’t typically responsible for parishes — we’re sent to the margins: schools, prisons, hospitals. That’s where we live out the corporal and spiritual works of mercy.
How do you find time for rest, reflection or hobbies in your busy life?
I’m up at 5am to pray. That early time is sacred for me. It centres me for the day ahead and prepares me to serve others, beginning with my own kids as I help them get ready for school.
How can we live the Jubilee Year’s theme of “Pilgrims of Hope” in our local communities?
Our local churches are signs of hope. When we highlight the positive contributions our faith communities make — whether through service, charity, or simply being present—we inspire not just those directly involved but the wider community, even beyond our borders.
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